right the first strategy that stores use to get customers to spend more money actually feels like they're doing you a favor at first but listen I hate to break it to you but the rewards that programs are not doing you the favor you think they are so whether it's a $20 birthday coupon or get 10% off when you spend more than $150 their goal is to get you to spend more that is it and listen if you get free shipping because you needed that certain amount of clothes then that's great good for you but for me buyer remorse really can kick skin if I really didn't need something but I bought it because it seemed like a good deal