you don't want to skimp on child care even though this is a whole discussion and we could have a whole episode around this because it is a massive expense very expensive but as a mom you know the last thing you want to do is be nervous about the environment you're dropping your kids off at right so so looking and vetting and again you may be paying more which gets into the whole conversation about how expensive it is I get it I get it but for me good quality child care has been really really important.
