family of four and my in-laws are in the beginning planning phase of moving out of state to buy land and put a few homes on it for us and so like this is your husband's family yes sir okay so your husband dies now you're the daughter-in-law where does this leave you and you meet somebody later on do they want to move next to the In-laws if it works and you guys do have a great relationship and you want to do this and it's a really great you know what I mean and you're all on good terms you want to live that close to them I mean all of it it could be a really cool thing but have have a plan when the season when when the season ends when it's done have a plan for how we're going to do this and everybody's not pissed being tied down what always kind of gives me a little bit of claustrophobic emotionally is when you feel like you don't have options in life and you're tied down and especially to your home and you have a family right there's a lot on your plate there's a lot going on and when you feel obligated if there's a sense of obligation 5 years down the road that we don't have the option to move because that's our in-laws right here and they would be pissed if someone else lived in this house cuz we had this whole deal so now we're stuck like that stuck feeling is what you don't want you want lots of freedom and choices if or when something changes
