and your spouse have a problem or an issue, put it out there. This is like one of the best pieces of advice someone gave us is they said in marriage, think of a triangle like it's you and your spouse against the problem. Don't put the problem in between you. Put it out there. And so when you're tackling it together, side by side, locked arms, thinking like that's the problem out there. It's not you, it's not this, it's the issue out there. And how together as a team do we tackle that issue? Right? This could be an issue of money, which happens a lot, uh, parenting, intimacy, time management, like all of it. Put the issue out there, not in between you..
